Category: This Crazy Occupation

I am often asked what I like and don’t like about what I do. I’m sure I’ve written many blogs about this, but there’s one thing that I’ve never really talked about. And that’s how difficult it can be to read people and know how to respond to them. I have found that everyone who comes to see me has a different agenda. And trying to figure out what that agenda is without coming right …

I am not a whore. I am an escort. There is a huge difference. You may think it’s semantics, but it’s way more than that for me. When a man calls me a whore, he is completely demeaning my personhood, my humanity and my occupation. I am also not a prostitute. Both of the above aforementioned people walk the streets and do car dates. They are usually on drugs and must maintain their habit. This …

I don’t care what service industry you are in or work for, but I do know this. Every service industry is the same in that you are always trying to please the client. A lot of people don’t understand how an escort can remain emotionally detached, but all I’m really concerned with is making sure you are pleased when you leave. The goal of any service is to make you want to come back again. …

His name is Diego, he’s 27 years old from Council Bluffs, Iowa and he gets a new burner app number every time he calls me to make an appointment. He has made five appointments with me in the last months and a half and every time he tells me that it’s actually Diego not who he said it was. So this means I have to cancel an hour appointment that I was expecting money for. …

The only cop that will ever bust you is an undercover police person, and they will never tell you if they are a cop or not. So there’s no reason to ask a provider if they are a cop. Never talk about sex on text. You can talk about money. But you cannot talk about sex and money. If you want to verify if a provider is a cop or not, ask her to show …

1/22/24 DON’T TRUST THESE PEOPLE People who never accept their mistakes. People who don’t help you when you ask them. People who gossip with everyone. People who act differently around others. People who are never sorry about their rude behavior. People who tell you other people’s secrets. People who bad-mouth their ex. People who do bad to others to feel good themselves. People who become jealous of others’ success. People who’re always busy or stuck …

There are a lot of scams on list crawler.eu. You might want to do the following if you see someone’s ad that you haven’t seen before. What you do is click on the little box that says more pics and reviews from within the ad. This takes you to what is basically their profile where you can see their old pictures, their old posts , when they came on the system and when they last …

Me: hi, I’m wondering why you put an ad on list crawler saying that you won’t see new clients. Don’t understand why anybody would do that. Her: it’s because I was assaulted, and I don’t need to see anybody new Me: oh, I’m so sorry to hear that. Can I ask how old the guy was? Her: he was 40 and he hit me in my head several times and then punched me in my …

People who blush easily are great lovers. People tend to blink more when they are talking with someone that they are interested in. 2 in 5 women suffer from anuptaphobia, the fear of never finding love. People make decisions in the same way when it comes to choosing what to buy or choosing a life partner. So if you prefer to buy premium products, selective dating sites are better for you. Sweaty hands can be …

I finally decided to delete my Many Vids account. I did this, because most of my videos were not selling, and the teasers were more than I wanted to show anybody who hadn’t paid. I probably could’ve changed my teasers, but with the fact that I wasn’t selling anything, it felt kind of fruitless. I’m still on Only Fans and doing very well on there. I’m working new videos and should have them out next …

12/3/23 Match With everything that I have gone through this year and continue to go through. With my age, slowly inching up into that area of no return. With feeling my loneliness more and more and feeling like it’s gaining a hold of me, I decided to get on Match.com. I paid $130 for six months and I’m hoping it doesn’t take me that long to find my person. I just joined on Monday so …

11/4/23 $500 Hookers Man, what a life! If you go on tryst.link, you will see a whole bunch of $500 hookers! And what you will notice about them is that they are always traveling. Can you imagine a $500 hooker having a regular clientele? Who would pay $500 for an hour even if it’s completely blissful? I’ll tell you who! These women are on somebody’s bucket list. And they must have enough guys that have …

Let me just say that I will never do an outcall to Platte City ever again.  There is absolutely nothing up there and the guy that I went to see today reminded me of this.  When I got there, I walked into a hotel room full of clothes and shit!  And, to boot, he had no donation for me.  He said that we could go to the ATM across the street and he would give …

Sorry to my avid readers but I haven’t felt much like blogging lately.  I don’t know if it has to do with my upcoming surgery and anxiety over what and how my life will change.  You see, I’ve never really been into exercise.  But I’m at a plateau weight-wise and I was told that I need to start moving.  And now my knee.  So, I guess I’m going to start moving a heck of a …

I just wanted all of my faithful readers to know that I am finally feeling like my old self again and that I’m “out of the woods”, so to speak.  I’m telling you.  It’s been a really different kind of year for me.  And now, I’m getting a knee replacement on 9/11!  I’ll be out of commission for most of September, but I plan to recover quickly like I am so apt to do most …

7/18/23 A New Knee As of 8/10/23, I will have a new right knee.  I will be in a skilled nursing facility for a couple weeks and then home convelescing.  I am looking so forward to this operation even though I know it’s going to take a good 6 months of PT and I HAVE TO do what they tell me to do!  I haven’t been good at keeping up to their standards but I …

I have lost 91 pounds and I only have 9 pounds to go to my initial goal.  Nothing fits (clothing-wise) and I still don’t have much appetite.  I think it’s caused by the medicine they put me on after I came off of Lithium.  It’s called Abilify and, at first, I wanted to eat everything in the house!  Now I’m going through the opposite effect.  I don’t want to eat.  I’m getting enough calories and …

6/3/23 Why do I even care anymore? In the past year, I thought about this a lot. And the fact of the matter, is that I’m not getting younger I’m only getting older. And I think, as you get older men find you less intriguing and more for a roommate. I definitely don’t need a roommate , and I haven’t found all that many men who want to date me that find me intriguing. No granted, I’m …

6/1/23 Bad People  I really do believe that bad people attract bad people and I think that we can all look at our past and present and say yes, we know a bad person who have attracted bad people. But having been a masters of social work and a therapist for 10 years I know bad people and I know good people . And I am here to say that this occupation I am in, …

5/31/23 Exactly What I have had Stolen from me in the past 7 years If I had known how much of my belongings would be stolen, burglarized, taken directly from me, and otherwise absconded from me, I might have thought twice about being a Compa.nion!  Ok, maybe not, but here’s a list for you to either shake your head along with me or laugh (but please, keep that to yourself). Laptop Iphone 11 Scale At …

Someone in St. Louis is using my pictures on a list crawler ad and they put like cute little sayings with them. Of course it’s a different phone number but I certainly don’t want anyone in St. Louis thinking this is me. I’ll be doing new pictures this week.