Rules/Info/FAQ

Who I Will and Won’t See

I see all men with the following caveats.  I only see White men over 30 and I do not see AA men.

How to Spend Time with Me

I prefer that you call me at 785-289-9666. Texting is fine too but I find the men who make a phone call are more reliable and legitimate.  I do limit what I will talk about on either phone or text.

What can we talk about before we meet?

Not much.  Considerations, where I live, absolutely nothing explicit!  

Hours

9:00 a.m. to 8:00 p.m. Monday – Sunday.

What to Expect

QUICK VISIT:  15 minutes of pure delight, but you better truly be quick! I never do quick visits for the very first visit!  Please do not ask for this if you have never seen me before.

HALF HOUR SERVICE:  Most likely we will get to know each other at the door and then I will show you where to get more comfortable and then accept your donation.  From there, we will get to know each other in more depth while I lightly caress you.  We will discuss why you chose me and what you are wanting to get out of your time with me.  I always like to end the session with a light back rub/tickle and a hug and kiss goodbye.  I find that younger guys prefer half hours, but full hours are preferred.

HOUR SERVICE:  All of the above, but we start with some Swedish Massage with some Deep Tissue work.  The extra time also gives us more time to get to know and explore eah other.  I find that older gentlemen prefer an hour with me.

OVERNIGHTS:   From now on, if I have not met you or talked a lot previously, I will not see you for an overnight.  Overnights are a special breed unto themselves.  We usually start with dinner, either at a restaurant or a home-cooked meal.  From there we might decide to head for my chambers or watch a movie on TV.  I like to drink wine to relax us.  Most of my overnights go very well and we are able to enjoy each other.  Of course, this depends on age, medications and other factors.  My overnights last 10 to 12 hours and I have heard that my bed is very comfortable and I have a sound machine to cover up any snoring!  At $800, this is less than half of what other providers offer.

Confidentiality

When you leave my home, I will never contact you unless you left something behind.  I won’t text, call, or email.  I don’t want to get you in trouble and I find no reason to drum up business as so many providers do.  I am a Masters of Social Work and Confidentiality is #1. 

Cautious!

I will not talk over text, phone, or email about what services I offer.  Your donation simply pays for my time and my time alone.  Nothing is implied or guaranteed.  I am not and have never been affiliated with any law enforcement agency and neither shall you if you are to share my time.  I make no offers of anything illegal and am a law abiding citizen.  If you are not, we need go no further.  I am very cautious for both our sake, which is why I may require you to be verified.  I will no longer be accepting calls from blocked or unknown numbers due to the number of hoaxes and no-shows from these calls.  You can still reach me through email or my Contact page on this website.  If you wish to make an appointment to see me, you will need to call 785-289-9666 to confirm.  I will end our conversation if you mention anything illegal.

Incalls

I mostly do in-calls in my home in the Northland.   I’m located in a very nice house on a quiet, dead end street with non-nosy neighbors.  I only give out my address once an appointment has been made.

Outcalls

I will, on occasion, do an outcall if the location is a very upscale hotel. I will travel to the Dowtown area and the Airport area.  Sorry, I do not go to Kansas! Please see my rates for this.

Newbies, Regulars, and Quick Visitors

Newbies:  I know that sometimes guys who have not been around me before might be a little nervous.  I do my best to relax them, but sometimes they need to know me better to feel comfortable.

Regulars: If you see me weekly or every other, you are entitled to free access to my Only Fans page. Please ask me for details.

Quick Visitors:  These sessions only last 15 minutes, so if you are not a true quickie, you may be disappointed. If I have not seen you before, I reguire at least a half hour appointment for your first time with me.

No Shows

If you do not show up for our time together and you have not called to cancel, you will go on my No Show list.  What this means is that you will be blocked from any interaction and never be allowed to see me.

Tips

I know that this is debated in the community, but I have to say I welcome tips.  Even just a $7.00 bottle of Pinot Grigio.  A Tip to me says “Job Well Done, You deserve a little extra”.  Besides Pinot, I enjoy Cheese Popcorn, Flowers, and Gift Certificates.  I also have a Wish List page now!

FAQ

Q.  What if I have to cancel at the last minute?

A. I simply request that you call or text to let me know.  I understand that things can come up at the last minute.

Q.  How much is a Blow Job?

A.  I do not give donation amounts for specific acts nor do I accept payment for anything explicit.  You are paying for my time and only my time.  

Q.  Will you negotiate times/donations?

A. I will not negotiate my donations as I feel they are very reasonable for this area.  But, if you want more time, that can be negotiated.

Q.  Do you see big guys?  I am 6’1″ and weight 325.

A.  The only qualification I have for the men I meet is that they be gentlemen and have taken a shower before our visit !  Weight is not a criteria for spending quality time together.  Being respectful and loving to laugh and have a good time is!

Q.  What sets you apart from others?

A.  Many things.  My maturity and my experience in life.  I have certainly experienced a lot of what the world has of offer.  I am well traveled, intellectual, and refined.  I am not your typical companion.   In fact, I know of no other provider with a Masters degree.  I have garnered many real world experiences that have enabled me to be a professional, reliable, and well-respected personal companion.  My time spent with you is very important to us both and while I do enjoy what I do immensely, I realize that I am providing a service and you deserve my utmost respect of your time.  I’m also a lot of fun to be with! 

Q. What are your feelings about kissing and being affectionate?

A. Affection can be a part of a budding professional relationship of a provider and client.  I love to kiss.  I will say though, that I am not big on kissing smokers.  I also provide mouth wash!

Q. How do I discuss a specific request or ask a specific question?

A. Certain things are never discussed until we meet, even if it is nothing more than a fantasy. However, any discussion about sex for money will be a deal breaker. This is a very important point! You are paying for my companionship and time only. What we decide to do with our time is between you and me when we meet!

Q. Why do I need to pay at the beginning of our date?

A. While this is a profession, I like to be able to create an atmosphere of both relaxation and excitement. Taking care of business in the beginning gives us the freedom to enjoy our date and depart with a hug/kiss! I want our time together, from beginning to end, to be special.  Please place your donation on a table where I can see it.

Q.  How do I know you won’t rip me off?

A. Our visit requires trust on the part of both of us. My reputation as a provider is all that I have. If that is lost, then I can no longer enjoy meeting exceptional gentlemen like you. My reviews speak to my reputation and I cherish it dearly. On the other side of the coin, I also expect the gentlemen I see to be above board in integrity and character.

Q.  What types of Donations do you accept?

A.  I accept Cash and Cash App. I do not accept Gift Cards, Venmo or Paypal.