Just found out that my brother is dying. He has been in the hospital for sepsis and he refuses to do anything that they ask him to do. Now his kidneys are failing and he probably has a month left. They’re sending him back to the nursing home with hospice. I plan to go there this weekend or next to say my final goodbyes. I’m very sad but my brother has lived a good life and kind of a hard life too. He’s definitely on the spectrum, but completely brilliant and very very oppositional. Doesn’t matter what you say to him, he disagrees. Always has to have the final word. This is what I will say finally killed him.