I know I haven’t written in a while and I really wanted to write something that was upbeat and positive. So along those lines I’m doing very well. I love my new car. I love my new kitten. Business is good. And my life is humming along.
Enter Mike, software salesman who recently moved to Kansas City and lives in $1 million house. Boy he really had me going. But thankfully, it was only 24 hours because I wanted to meet him. Of course he ghosted me. And what I learned from this is that I don’t want to talk with guys forever or even for a full day before I meet them. What a waste of time. I can only hope that karma will serve him best with what goes around comes around. I have to wonder what I have done to deserve this.
I’ve never been one to think of people as bad. Maybe with the exception of felons, but it really depends on the felony too.But, as I get older, I’m starting to see the nefarious side of people. I guess I just don’t understand why people sometimes do the things they do. Why would someone waste their time and texting me a lot over 24 hours with no intention of ever meeting me? Why do people catfish in the first place? Having come from mental health, I often question peoples mental health. But I do have the belief that everybody does the best they can given what they have to work with. And it’s those last seven words “given what they had to work with“ that is the true meaning of that sentence. Think about it. Maybe some people don’t do a very good job at living, but I do believe they’re doing the best they can, given what they have to work with. Which granted is not a lot sometimes.
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Jay
I have had similar experiences with women from dating sites. I think that they want to feel connected but lack the courage to take a chance.
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I have had similar experiences with women from dating sites. I think that they want to feel connected but lack the courage to take a chance.