11/25/25 Talking Too Much

I got some recent feedback that I “talk too much.”

Not the easiest thing to hear, but honestly—not entirely wrong.

I’ve always been a talker. I like connecting, I like warmth, and sometimes when I’m nervous or trying to make someone comfortable, I fill the silence. But most men don’t come to see me to talk. They come for touch, intimacy, and escape. Too much conversation can pull them out of the moment, and I get that.

So I’m making a change.

I’m not going to stop being myself, but I am going to slow down, talk less, and listen more. I want every man who sees me to get what he came for—not what my nerves decide to offer.

I’m always learning, always adjusting, and always trying to be better. And if talking less makes the experience better for him, then that’s exactly what I’m going to do.