Blogs for 5/21/26

5/21/26 You Have Needs

And what better way to get those needs taken care of than by seeing an escort who is mature, patient, fun, and silly all at the same time? Much better than having an affair. No complicated emotions involved except maybe friendship. No contacting you after you leave because why would I? Just something to look forward to. Someone to look forward to.

The thing about the title is that if you look at the five love languages, the one that always seems to stand out for men is physical touch. And if you’re not getting that somewhere else, eventually you’re going to need to find it somewhere.

For some men, that’s simply massage and a rub and tug. And that’s perfectly fine too. The massage is usually very good, the release is nice, and you don’t have to do it yourself. Not quite the same as seeing an escort, but definitely a runner-up.

But seeing the same person repeatedly to get your needs met actually shows a certain level of maturity in my opinion. Which is why I’ve always thought of hobbyists as somewhat immature. It’s OK to form an attachment to someone who is providing you with a service, much in the same way you might with a massage therapist or a hairstylist. They’re giving you something valuable, and over time you naturally get to know them through that.

I suppose you can try to repress or ignore your needs, but I think that only works for so long. Human beings need touch, connection, affection, and release. There are only so many times you can take care of all of that by yourself before it starts feeling lonely.

5/21/26 Update on Me

You might’ve noticed that I haven’t written many blogs lately. That’s probably because I’m doing so well and staying so busy that I’m not thinking about writing blogs. Mah-Jongg Jewelry by Patty has really taken off. In fact, escorting is becoming my side hustle now. It still pays the bills, but MJP has been growing month over month.

Even during a time when people supposedly aren’t spending money on luxury items, they’re still buying my bracelets. And more and more boutiques are starting to buy from me too. A lot of my time these days is spent working on MJP.

Gary and I are doing great. We’re coming up on a year and a half together, and we’re going to Grafton this weekend to celebrate my recent 65th birthday. Grafton is very cute and touristy, and we love shopping and wandering through different boutiques. We’ll go out for a nice dinner too. He’s very good to me, and we’ve even started talking about when I might retire and move in with him.

And speaking of retirement, if MJP continues doing as well as it has been, I may retire from escorting in two years when I turn 67. I hope and pray things continue the way they have been because honestly, I’m very happy right now.

Now that I’ve lived in St. Louis for a full year, I can honestly say I feel fully acclimated to life here. I seem to drive a lot more now, mostly because I usually do the driving when Gary and I go out together. But I absolutely love having an electric car and spending about $10 a week on electricity.

I also love being closer to my sisters. My older sister and I are actually getting along much better these days, and she’s going to help me take my jewelry around to boutiques.

I’ve also reconnected with an old friend named Ronnie. Thirty years ago we were best friends, and I really tried my darndest to get back into her good graces. I think I finally have. I probably see her twice a month now.

I’m also thinking about joining the Y now that I have Silver Sneakers and really have no excuse not to since it’s free. I’d love to get back into the water and do some aqua exercise in the mornings. You know me — not that much into exercising unless it’s fun.

Well, I guess that’s it for now. I’m at a really good place in my life. I really should write a book about starting over at 65. exercise in the morning. We’ll see. You know me. Not that much into exercising unless it’s fun.

Well, I guess that’s it for now. I’m at a really good place in my life. I really should write a book about starting over at 65.